I like red lipstick. Do you always Trageich him to please me? Am I looking forward to nurüber compliments from or women or not from men too? Can I n only rejoice at compliment of one, say, good friend, in which every sexual intention of VORNHEREINAUSGERÄUMT is? May I not rejoice when compliment Vonjemandem comes with whom I am in a professional relationship? Have I not been able to bewusstaufgetragen lipstick to achieve a certain effect? I don't like nurroten lipstick, but also like flirting. Can I be sure that this has never brought me a personal advantage, professionally or privately? No, I can't. If question is wher I have already taken advantage of system, Ichgestehen must: Yes, me too.
In time AdamSoboczynski wrote that a rape is not equally difficult to weigh a unsolicited bouquet of flowers. The MeToo debate Weiterenführe that women would be pushed back into DieOpferrolle. Both of m lit me up. Women Sinddoch not only victims. They are sometimes also perpetrators. Not Wenigekämpfen "with ir own weapons", as Frauenmagazineso often recommend. By way, before someone comes up with false ideas: using "make use of System" I mean by no means "sichhochschlafen". This is also certainly true because women – surprise! – can be calculating and cold-blooded.
Is this surprising in EinerGesellschaft, where every cough candy with bare breasts beworbenwird? As lachrymose as this may sound: women are still portrayed as merchandise in Produktmarketingimmer, easily dressed and always willing. It is not surprising if you play in real life Ebenfallsnach se rules.
Time out of laziness, sometimes for convenienceSexism is everyday life. Since wirkteine sudden indignation wave like MeToo almost hypocritical. Everyone knows little games between DenGeschlechtern: For example, I can do some things quite well, drilling machines unfortunately do not operate. I'll be glad to help. The same is true for IT problems of second degree of complexity, dasWechseln of bicycle hoses and carrying of heavy objects (no, I am not talking about shopping bags). Sometimes out of laziness, sometimes for convenience, sometimes because I really can't. I'm not proud of it, but it's not denMännern. No one ever asked me to michmit a drill.
Let's get to AngenehmenDingen. Which woman can claim to have every Aufmerksamkeitabgeschmettert you ever made because of her Frauseinsentgegengebracht? Which woman has never demFlohmarktverkäufer a particularly nice Lächelnzugeworfen while haggling? As a woman you often get more easily what you want. FREUENWIR us if door is stopped? Helped in cloak? The desired pair of shoes suddenly cost less? That already sexist gestures?
So far I have restrained myself in social media MeToo. On one hand because I found esbefremdlich that under this hashtag everything is gared, from abuse in childhood up to "I was at Tailleberührt". On or hand, because after a long period of thinking, I keinErlebnis that I thought was "bad" enough. Vermutlichhabe I just got lucky, because every third woman will once imlive victims of violence. To tell such a thing publicly demands courage, more in any case, than to proclaim to have been invited to stay at a flat-party malvom drunk host.
To Missverständnissenvorzubeugen: I understand myself as a feminist. I know dieStatistiken to violence against women and those of dark-figure rapes. I believe that gender pay gap exists undbin still against a quota, because I think this is PositiveDiskriminierung. I know that we are also far beyond derLohnarbeit of equal rights, that women raise more time for housekeeping and care and take fars SeltenerElternzeit. I'm still looking forward to being a mor. Know that most of heroes in children's books are masculine, not even more so because I find that lyrics are not more beautiful. Although I think federal government's decision to introduce a third gender is great, I believe in principle differences between man and woman. A world that Diesenivelliert is neir realistic nor desirable. Everywhere, WoMänner and women clash, re is a residual vonKörperlichkeit. The alternative would be a machine man liberated by JeglicherKörperlichkeit. No one can want that, after all, currently dominant Aseptic fitness-ideal is bad enough. Neverless, not all men are pigs, so wenigwie all women are shy, are released deer to launch.
Date Of Update: 21 November 2017, 12:03
